Saturday, June 26, 2010
Turn Helpless into Hope
I gave up watching the local news years ago. Seems all they ever have to report are murders, rapes, and robberies, and I just decided that listening to all negativity wasn't good for my health - mental or physical! So I made the newspaper my source of local news - each morning I scan the headlines and decide what I want to read, and what I don't. This way I can stay informed, but don't feel overwhelmed with continued exposure to the not-so-good news.

I've always enjoyed the national evening news...they seem to offer a broader view of world events and human interest stories you wouldn't hear about otherwise. But I find in the last two months I have a hard time watching any news. What is happening in the Gulf is devastating. My heart breaks for the people whose lives have been impacted by this disaster, as well as the wildlife and environmental destruction. What a helpless feeling to watch this unfold and not be able to do anything about it.

The sad truth is there are more things we can't control, than things we can. But the one thing we do have is the ability to filter the information that we expose ourselves to, and to process it in a constructive way. Be informed, but know that continued exposure to negative news can have a negative impact on the body, mind, and spirit. Remember too that hope is a powerful energy, and even in the most dire and seemingly impossible circumstances a dose of hope combined with the power of prayer can change everything. So if you too begin to feel overwhelmed by all that is going on, see it resolving in a positive way...pray for this outcome - and together we just may change the world!
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Flu Philosopy!
"You can't be sick...you never get sick!" Well my husband was wrong. I had some kind of flu/virus that had me feeling pretty lousy for the last week. Even though I wasn't feeling great, I knew it could have been so much worse. Because I take good care of my body on a regular basis, I was able to fight the virus off and recover quickly. But what also got me through without too much wear and tear was my positive mental attitude.

If you've never tried living life from the "it can always be worse" perspective, I suggest you give it a try. I've found that when things go wrong the more I focus on what is wrong and the more "woe is me" attitude I have, the worse things seem to become. But when things go wrong and I work at shifting my thinking to, "ok this stinks...but I know it could always be worse" and I refocus my thoughts to all of the things that are right and all of the blessings...somehow things always seem to get back on track.

And I used this same philosophy to get me through the flu. Every time I started feeling really sick I would remind myself how much worse it could have been...and then started thinking about all of the blessings that fill my life. So when my fever would spike I would remind myself that at least my stomach wasn't affected. Or when my cough became really annoying I would remind myself how lucky I am to know about the soothing effects of honey and how this natural miracle helps to calm a cough without any side affects. Doing this would always make me feel a little better...and before long I noticed that even when I was feeling bad, I wasn't feeling bad...

So next time life is not cooperating with your plans, try having an attitude of gratitude and remind yourself, "it can always be worse..." and see if that doesn't help you move through life's challenges a little more easily! ~ Andrea :-)